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Why love fades?

Yesterday I found a book, Kitab Terfaktab by Terfaktab Media and I read it. The first part of the novel can be used to explain why does love fades (scientifically) and it's really interesting tho. Let me summarize it. So, here it is:

Have you ever think, how does someone falls in love?


"Dah nak jatuh cinta, so jatuh je la. Tak gitu?" Ayyy yeke ni. Cuba fikir balik, mcm apa yg writer (Khairul Amilin) persoalkan, "macam mana perasaan tu wujud? Just like, boom! You're in love?"

Scientifically here is the answer, korang semua tau dak actually segala rasa seronok, fe-feeling masa tengah sweet-sweet bercinta tu hanya disebabkan hormon? Hell yeah, hormone. Eleh kalau tak caya, cer google "love hormone" sekali. Tu yang ada sampai lautan api pun sanggup dia renangi, padehal bukan ada pun lautan api, auta je lebih. Hormone secreted banyak sangat kot. Feedback mechanism of hormonal control pulak tak jalan.

Dopamine. Fenylethylamine. Norepinephrine. Ini semua antara love-hormones yg femes-femes. Love hormone ni akan di-produce dengan berlambaknya melimpah-limpah *hiperbola*. By way of illustration, tu yang dalam iklan D'herbs, si dayang senandung muka je putih tangan hitam tu dok excited takleh dok diam bila lelaki idaman dia lalu tu. Terketar-ketar je. Lidah cramp. Kaki macam kena gam. Otak senget sekejap. And yeah, sama je macam situation terserempak dengan crush (tak apply dekat species main redah pantang nampak peluang boleh dekat dengan crush) Huehue.

Experiment guys? Leggo

Writer topik Cinta dan Sains ni jugak cadangkan satu experiment yang aku rasa a bit crazy but brilliant. Cuba korang cari sesiapa laki/perempuan yang korang tak kenal dah tu cakap kat diorang yang korang nak test hormon. Mau kena tampar, takpun nanti dia pandang sekeliling cari camera (mana tau masuk tv variety show ka kan). Tu yang gila sikit tu. Tapi, if and only if korang berjaya mempengaruhi dia utk test hormon, try menghadap and pandang satu sama lain selama 3 minit (tanpa bercakap dan etc). Menurut writer,

Minit pertama: akan rasa gabra, segan etc
Minit kedua: mula relax
Minit Ketiga: rasa best je tengok dia even tak hensem/cantik (agak kejam). Selesa gitu.

Pernah dengar Mermaid Theory ? Sangat kena dengan experiment di atas.

" A theory that a woman, no matter how ugly she may seem at first, will eventually look beautiful if you see her for a certain period "

Then come to the reason, why?

This is maybe why love fades. As i said before, hormon ni akan keluar melimpah-limpah, especially masa bunga-bunga cinta baru berputik haa kauu. So, bila dah lama berenang di lautan cinta asmara tu kan, maybe dah selalu jumpa pasangan blablabla tu badan kita mcm dah boleh adapt dgn situation cenggitu. Emm jadinya hormon yg berlambak dirembeskan dulu tu pun berkemungkinan besar akan keluar dalam kadar normal je la en. Dan tak mustahil lama-lama penghasilan love hormone ni akan slowly decreasing by time.

But hey don't worry bout this damn hormones sebab ia boleh ditingkatkan balik. Pm for love pills. Hahaha k i'm kiddin' . Go to pharmacy, buy pills with vitamin B6 and Magnesium 'cause it can increase this damn love hormones (katanya).

Long story short, korang beli la buku ni. HAHA. Ada berlambak lagi knowledge, tips, etc.



"Perasaan cinta wujud memang disebabkan hormon. Tapi jangan lupa. Hormon tu, Allah yang jaga"
-Khairul Amilin, Cinta dan Sains-


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